I would like to apologize for the lack of what the blog is supposed to be for. I’ve been going through a lot these past few months, and it’s just been kind of hard for me to get into my writing mode. But things might actually be looking up for me. I hope to find inspiration soon.
Thank you to those who remain with me even though I don’t deserve it.
made rebloggable by overwhelming request :)
((REBLOGS SO HARD, BECAUSE GODDAMMIT, THIS))
SWEET LORD ALMIGHT YESSS THIS!
And you know what I really, really, really hate? When your threads, good, character, plot thickening threads are dropped just so the mun can rp meaningless m/m sex. There’s honestly been times in the past where I’ve considred A) blocking people who do that constantly B) just giving up RPing in general because even though a lot of people say they want to RP with me…when you do a m/m smut thread and it gets over fifty notes in one night and all your other threads get maybe two a week…yeah I think you’re just saying that.
When you’re playing a female muse you have to work TWICE as hard as any male muses to get threads, asks, or god forbid shipping. And I know from asking around that I’m not the only person with a female muse who feels this way.
I have played a female character.
And it is hard as hell. And I was made to be an offender for simply talking to a ‘gay’ male character. Like, because of the fact this character was ‘gay’, I should have assumed the mun meant ‘I want women completely off my blog ew vaginas’ rather than ‘gay’.
I never thought gay meant woman-phobia.
This is why I multi-ship. This is why I do my damndest to roleplay with as many female characters as I can. To give them all the shipping they want.
BECAUSE THEY DON’T GET IT. NEVER. And it hurts. And I’ve been through it. And I hated feeling unwanted. And even if I DID find an admin who DARED do hetero ships, they’d long since found a main and refused to stray from that one ship because ‘so many females are mary-sues’.
And the amount of times I’ve heard ‘well one-two female blogs bugged me so I won’t play with them at ALL anymore’ is just sad.
Because I’m sure a male blog has bothered you before, in the past, yet you still roleplay with them. Shocker. Don’t resort to petty excuses.
Anywho, I wholly agree with this. There is a sickening amount of, pardon my french, dick-worship going on that MANY great females get over looked. MANY AMAZING female characters get over looked because they DARED to be effeminate, rather than act like a stereotypical man. Because effeminate = bad, weak character, somehow.
Which is utter shit.
POWER TO ALL THE UNRECOGNIZED WOMEN CHARACTERS OUT THERE; y’all are fucking lovely and I’m only sorry I can’t rp with more of you.
And yet, as I’ve seen this post go around 90% of reblogs are female characters
Will the Mun’s of male characters get it? It’s a huge problem
What happens on tumblr is a DIRECT REFLECTION OF REAL LIFE.
If you think you’re helping women in the real world by ignoring female characters through role play, you’re so very wrong. It may be for fun and for relaxation but you’re still acting like women are a joke. It’s a direct reflection of what happens in the world. You’re not helping, really.
And another thing that bothers me, and I have found bothers other people, other gay men, is the fetishization in rp. It’s stupid, stop. Sex is sex, there really is nothing glamourous about gay, lesbian or straight sex. And if you don’t believe me, or think I’m blowing smoke, here is a great article on fandoms and fetishization of homosexuality.
BUT THE POINT IS
WHY THE FUCK DOESN’T ANYONE GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THIS
i am so pissed.
And if you don’t agree or at least partially agree then why the fuck are you following me?
He stuck that motherfucking landing too.
the one sports thing that many tumblr users know about
because it was giffed
Even better from camera #2
#24 was like “da fuck?”
things to know about how i do threads:
- i will do any kind of thread (convo, para, text message, etc.)
- i either reply super fast or slower than a paraplegic snail
- i apologize for that paraplegic joke that was bad of me
- there will be threads i like more than others, i am mostly human there’s no stopping that
- writers block is a thing that exists as much as i hate to say it
- no matter what i will always love you whether i reply in 2 minutes or 2 years <3